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Reverse Mortgage Guide

What Counseling Is Required?

Every HECM borrower must complete counseling with a HUD-approved agency before closing. Ryan and Steve help you schedule the right session, understand the certificate, and prepare questions about taxes, insurance, and heirs.

HUD Counseling Is Mandatory for HECMs

Congress and HUD require independent counseling so seniors understand how reverse mortgages work before signing. The counselor is not your lender — they explain obligations, costs, alternatives, and risks such as unpaid taxes, moving out, and how the loan affects heirs.

After the session you receive a counseling certificate. Lenders cannot close a HECM without a valid certificate for each required participant. Certificates expire after a set period, so schedule counseling close enough to your application timeline that it remains current through underwriting.

Non-Borrowing Spouses who will continue living in the home are often required to attend as well, so everyone understands occupancy and repayment rules. Ryan and Steve at Luminate Bank coordinate timing so counseling does not delay your closing.

At a Glance

ProviderHUD-approved agency
Who attendsBorrowers (+ often NBS)
Typical lengthAbout 60–90 minutes
OutputCounseling certificate
FeePaid to agency
EstimateIllustrative only

What Counselors Typically Cover

Come prepared with questions — counseling is your independent education session.

How the loan works

Counselors explain principal limits, interest accrual, payout options (lump sum, tenure, term, line of credit), and that you keep title while the loan is a lien.

Ongoing obligations

Taxes, insurance, maintenance, and primary-residence occupancy are emphasized — missing these can lead to default even without monthly P&I.

Costs and alternatives

You review typical fees, MIP, and whether other options — downsizing, a home equity loan, or delaying a reverse — might fit better for your goals.

Heirs and repayment

Counselors outline what happens when you move or pass away, non-recourse protections, and how heirs can sell or keep the home.

Scheduling Counseling With The 2 Mortgage Guys

A simple path from first call to certificate.

Step 1

Confirm who must attend

List borrowers and any Non-Borrowing Spouse who needs counseling so no one is missed before underwriting.

Step 2

Book a HUD agency

Use a HUD-approved counselor list; Ryan and Steve can point you to agencies that regularly serve HECM clients in your area.

Step 3

Complete the session

Bring loan estimates, tax and insurance amounts, and heir questions. Pay the agency fee and keep your certificate.

Step 4

Submit and close

Deliver the certificate with your application package and proceed through appraisal and underwriting — subject to approval.

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Frequently Asked Questions

What counseling is required for a reverse mortgage?

For an FHA HECM, every borrower (and typically any Non-Borrowing Spouse who will remain in the home) must complete counseling with a HUD-approved reverse mortgage counselor before the loan can close. You receive a counseling certificate that is submitted with the application.

How long does reverse mortgage counseling take?

Sessions are often about 60–90 minutes and may be done by phone or in person, depending on the agency. You should schedule early — certificates have expiration windows, and counselors can book out several days or weeks.

Who pays for HUD reverse mortgage counseling?

Counseling agencies charge a fee that is often a few hundred dollars or less; some borrowers qualify for a reduced or waived fee based on income. The fee is separate from lender closing costs and is usually paid directly to the counseling agency.

Does counseling guarantee loan approval?

No. Counseling educates you about risks, obligations, and alternatives. Approval still depends on age, equity, the financial assessment, property standards, and underwriting. This page is educational — not a commitment to lend.

Ready to Schedule HECM Counseling?

Ryan & Steve can walk you through who must attend and what to ask — not a commitment to lend; subject to credit and property approval.